Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Don't be in a relationship if you're gonna act single.
Friday, July 1, 2011
Love is about imparting a sense of security to your relationship
Romance
It is an act of trying to influence or gain favor of another by giving attention of gifts to him/her.
Two types of romance:
- Selfish Romance - it occurs when you do romantic acts solely for the purpose of gaining something for yourself, like to get gifts or to impress someone else.
- Selfless Romance - it occurs when you do romantic acts for the enjoyment and pleasure of your partner. You receive your enjoyment and pleasure through their happiness.
Breaking-up.
Everyone finds a perfect person whom they hopelessly fall in love with and live happily ever after but we know in some instances, we have to end the relationship.
Possible causes of a couple’s break-up? Here’s some.
- They simply are not happy with each other anymore.
- They found someone “better” besides his/her present boy/girlfriend.
- Busy schedules.
- No communication.
- One of them is cheating.
- Being too different.
- No trust.
- Everybody is against to your relationship.
- You are “falling out of love”.
- Both wanted to end their relationship.
- You cannot understand each other anymore.
- Your partner does not give you importance and always sets you aside.
Tips to help you move on.
Breaking-up with someone is really a painful thing. But, it is not the end of your life and you have to move on.
- First of all, accept the fact that your relationship is over.
- Think that he/she is not the only person in the world.
- Make yourself busy.
- Go out with friends. Have fun. Meet new people.
- Always think positive.
- Think that God have greater plans for you and He is always at your side.
- Have someone you can talk to.
- Sort out things with your ex-boy/girlfriend.
- Concentrate on other things.
- Think of a brighter day ahead you.
Kahit paulit ulit, ang sarap lang pagusapan.
Kanina, pinapatulog namin si Kurt. Tapos di talaga matapos samin yung issue kanina. :) Buti na lang kahit maingay kame, natulog pa din si Kurt. hangga’t di kase niya sinasagot tanong ko, lalo na’t seryoso di ko talaga siya tinitigilan. Bigla niyang sinabe, “Ayoko ng mga ganyang usapan eh, di na naman tayo makakatulog eh.” Ako naman pilit pa rin ng pilit na sumagot siya para tumigil na ko. Sagot na naman siya, “Hay nako, kilala kita. Di na matatapos yang usapan natin. Pagkatulog ni Kurt maya-maya tumatabi ka na sakin tas bigla kang haharap at magtatanong ng kung ano-ano.” Which is true. Hehe lagi namin yun ginagawa. Mag reminisce ng paulit ulit. Same issues. :) Lalo na pag senti yung mga tugtog, may isa samin ang biglang babanat dyan at magsisimula ng topic. Buti na lang kahit ganon di na kame nagkakapikunan kase before, pag may tinago siya na ngayon ko lang nalaman, end na yng topic. Wala ng explanation. Eh ngayon kahit paulit ulit na parang wala lang. Tawa lang ng tawa :)
Siguro kaya din kame ganto ka-close at open sa isa’t isa kase mag 5 years na kame.
P.S: sa mga in a relationship dyan or what, magandang maging open sa partner niyo. Para walang gulo or something. Para clear lahat sa relationship niyo. Ang saya kaya pag super close kayo ng partner niyo :”>