Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Don't be in a relationship if you're gonna act single.

Ibblog ko kase sobrang naiinis ako ngayon srsly!
Ang hirap sa mga lalake magaling lang sila manligaw, pero pag sinagot na sila balewala na naman. I mean, nakalimutan na nila yung responsibility nila as a boyfriend. Nakakalimutan nilang may commitment sila. Parang nakakainsulto lang sa mga babae diba, nagtiwala sila tapos ganon ganon na lang yun pag nakuha na nila yung loob ng babae. Sa una pakitang gilas pa yang mga lalakeng yan, pero pag tumatagal na nakakalimutan na may mga girlfriend sila. Pasarap buhay sila. Di ko sinasabe na lahat ng oras nila ay dun lang sa babae, pero sana gawin nila yung responsibility nila as a boyfriend. Hindi yung kayo na nga, umaarte ka na parang wala kang girlfriend. Gagawin mo lahat ng gusto mo, like pag gusto mo umalis with your friends aalis ka ng walang paalam. Ang mga babae maarte yan pero nilalagay naman sa lugar. Gusto ng mga babae mas pagtuunan mo siyang pansin. Hindi yung parang lagi na lang balewala. One more thing, pag nambabae yung lalake. sana di ka na lang nanligaw, sana di mo na lang pinaniwala yung girl na gusto mo siya. Kung di mo naman din siya sesryosohin para san pa. Nakasakit ka pa diba!

Ang mga lalaki malaki ang rsponsibility nyan. Lalo na kung may anak na, alam na niya dapat niyang ikilos. Wala na yung feeling single pa din. Kase dapat ang focus nila nasa family na niya. Hindi sa friends or sa sarili niya. AAt some point, syempe kailangan din nila ng social life diba. Pero dapat alam nila yung limitations nila.

Di ako galit sa lalake. May boyfriend na ko and my baby na kame. Nagblog lang ako about dyan kase nararanasan ko yan ngayon. Gusto ko na matuto siya sa mga ginagawa niya.

Yun lang po ang gusto ko iparating! Hee =))

Friday, July 1, 2011

ChurpChurp Philippines | Social Share » Extra Excitement in your McDonald's Meal with the New Coca-Cola Can Glass Series! (Preview)

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Love is about imparting a sense of security to your relationship

Kailangan sa mga partner ang ipakita na mahalaga sa bawat isa sakanila yung relationship nila. Alagaan nilang mabuti yung samahan nila. Kahit pa sabihin nila na nag-aaway sila, normal lang yun. Ang mahalaga, sa bawat away ng isang couple, natututo sila. Nalalaman nila ang di dapat para sa ikabubuti ng relationship nila. Kailangan iparamdam ng bawat couple yung importance nung relationship nila, di lang dahil sa kailangan, pero dahil gusto nila itong pagtibayin pa.

"For a successful relationship, it is always better that you contribute the maximum and make your partner feel secure about the relationship."


Romance

It is an act of trying to influence or gain favor of another by giving attention of gifts to him/her.

Two types of romance:

  • Selfish Romance - it occurs when you do romantic acts solely for the purpose of gaining something for yourself, like to get gifts or to impress someone else.
  • Selfless Romance - it occurs when you do romantic acts for the enjoyment and pleasure of your partner. You receive your enjoyment and pleasure through their happiness.

Breaking-up.

Everyone finds a perfect person whom they hopelessly fall in love with and live happily ever after but we know in some instances, we have to end the relationship.

Possible causes of a couple’s break-up? Here’s some.

  • They simply are not happy with each other anymore.
  • They found someone “better” besides his/her present boy/girlfriend.
  • Busy schedules.
  • No communication.
  • One of them is cheating.
  • Being too different.
  • No trust.
  • Everybody is against to your relationship.
  • You are “falling out of love”.
  • Both wanted to end their relationship.
  • You cannot understand each other anymore.
  • Your partner does not give you importance and always sets you aside.

Tips to help you move on.

Breaking-up with someone is really a painful thing. But, it is not the end of your life and you have to move on.

  • First of all, accept the fact that your relationship is over.
  • Think that he/she is not the only person in the world.
  • Make yourself busy.
  • Go out with friends. Have fun. Meet new people.
  • Always think positive.
  • Think that God have greater plans for you and He is always at your side.
  • Have someone you can talk to.
  • Sort out things with your ex-boy/girlfriend.
  • Concentrate on other things.
  • Think of a brighter day ahead you.

Kahit paulit ulit, ang sarap lang pagusapan.

Kanina, pinapatulog namin si Kurt. Tapos di talaga matapos samin yung issue kanina. :) Buti na lang kahit maingay kame, natulog pa din si Kurt. hangga’t di kase niya sinasagot tanong ko, lalo na’t seryoso di ko talaga siya tinitigilan. Bigla niyang sinabe, “Ayoko ng mga ganyang usapan eh, di na naman tayo makakatulog eh.” Ako naman pilit pa rin ng pilit na sumagot siya para tumigil na ko. Sagot na naman siya, “Hay nako, kilala kita. Di na matatapos yang usapan natin. Pagkatulog ni Kurt maya-maya tumatabi ka na sakin tas bigla kang haharap at magtatanong ng kung ano-ano.” Which is true. Hehe lagi namin yun ginagawa. Mag reminisce ng paulit ulit. Same issues. :) Lalo na pag senti yung mga tugtog, may isa samin ang biglang babanat dyan at magsisimula ng topic. Buti na lang kahit ganon di na kame nagkakapikunan kase before, pag may tinago siya na ngayon ko lang nalaman, end na yng topic. Wala ng explanation. Eh ngayon kahit paulit ulit na parang wala lang. Tawa lang ng tawa :)

Siguro kaya din kame ganto ka-close at open sa isa’t isa kase mag 5 years na kame.

P.S: sa mga in a relationship dyan or what, magandang maging open sa partner niyo. Para walang gulo or something. Para clear lahat sa relationship niyo. Ang saya kaya pag super close kayo ng partner niyo :”>